{"id":3145,"date":"2022-08-10T15:00:32","date_gmt":"2022-08-10T21:00:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/?p=3145"},"modified":"2022-07-10T20:52:17","modified_gmt":"2022-07-11T02:52:17","slug":"book-the-hands-were-given-2018","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/2022\/08\/10\/book-the-hands-were-given-2018\/","title":{"rendered":"BOOK: The Hands We&#8217;re Given (2018)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><u><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft \" src=\"https:\/\/i.gr-assets.com\/images\/S\/compressed.photo.goodreads.com\/books\/1537189871l\/41879702._SY475_.jpg\" alt=\"The Hands We're Given\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\">The Hands We&#8217;re Given<br>\n<\/u><\/strong>Year: 2018<br>\nAuthor: O.E. Tearmann<br>\nLength: 350 pages<\/p>\n<p>This book was not what I expected. First, the cover makes it look like it&#8217;s some kind of heist\/hacker book, which it&#8217;s not. Instead, I got a military sci-fi with heavy LGBTQ+ themes. Second, even if you picked up this book for its gay\/trans romance, the only reason it&#8217;s a &#8220;slow burn&#8221; is because it starts in the wrong place.&nbsp;Third, even within this post-apocalyptic setting, I had so many moments where things made little sense. It also didn&#8217;t help that one of the most annoying characters I&#8217;ve read maintained her annoying personality for much too long until they rectified it. Ultimately, this book was not for me.<\/p>\n<p>All this being said, <em>The Hands We&#8217;re Given<\/em> is the first book I&#8217;ve read that appears to convey the struggles of a female-to-male transition somewhat accurately. Granted, I&#8217;m still confused about the main character&#8217;s sexual attraction, since it would normally be considered &#8220;straight&#8221; before their transition, but is now &#8220;gay&#8221; during\/after the transition. This is likely due to my limited understanding of these issues. Still, the sex scenes were probably a bit too spicy for me anyway, regardless of the genders of those taking part in them.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, many other aspects of this book didn&#8217;t make logical sense. Why does the new commander have such anxiety with these &#8220;outcasts&#8221; accepting him when he already considers himself an outcast from the society they&#8217;re fighting? Why don&#8217;t these outcasts have a bigger grudge against the boyfriend who is clearly from the &#8220;genetically superior&#8221; society? Why did they always seem to be surprised by common issues like hailstorms? How is it so post-apocalyptic everywhere but in the corporate-controlled cities? In the end, I had too many questions that the book didn&#8217;t realize it was asking.<\/p>\n<p>A gay\/trans romance that tries to be a military sci-fi, I give <em>The Hands We&#8217;re Given<\/em> 2.0 stars out of 5.<\/p>\n<h2><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-647\" src=\"http:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/255px-Five-pointed_star_svg-150x150.png\" alt=\"255px-Five-pointed_star_svg\" width=\"50\" height=\"50\">&nbsp;<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-647\" src=\"http:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/255px-Five-pointed_star_svg-150x150.png\" alt=\"255px-Five-pointed_star_svg\" width=\"50\" height=\"50\"><\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/bmw-the-critic\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"820\" height=\"312\" src=\"http:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/BMW-the-Critic-v2.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2968\" srcset=\"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/BMW-the-Critic-v2.jpg 820w, https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/BMW-the-Critic-v2-300x114.jpg 300w, https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/BMW-the-Critic-v2-768x292.jpg 768w, https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/BMW-the-Critic-v2-640x244.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 820px) 100vw, 820px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Hands We&#8217;re Given Year: 2018 Author: O.E. Tearmann Length: 350 pages This book was not what I expected. First, the cover makes it look like it&#8217;s some kind of heist\/hacker book, which it&#8217;s not. Instead, I got a military sci-fi with heavy LGBTQ+ themes. Second, even if you picked up this book for its [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[36,54],"tags":[1020,55,1067,2325,3116,8,3117,3118],"class_list":["post-3145","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-2-0-stars","category-book","tag-1020","tag-book","tag-lgbtq","tag-military-sci-fi","tag-o-e-tearmann","tag-review","tag-the-hands-were-given","tag-trans"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3145","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3145"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3145\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3148,"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3145\/revisions\/3148"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3145"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3145"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/benjamin-m-weilert.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3145"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}